Saturday, April 26, 2025

You aren't broken, you are free...

You stayed far longer than you should have, holding on to hope that things might change—not for your own sake, but for your child.
For the family you dreamed of. The family you fought so hard to keep together.

You gave chance after chance.
You made excuses for what you knew deep down wasn't right.
You swallowed your pain to keep the peace, even when it cost you pieces of yourself.

You tolerated manipulation wrapped in sweet words.
You endured wounds that left no visible scars, but tore through your spirit just the same.
You convinced yourself it wasn’t that bad—that if you could just love harder, give more, be better, maybe things would finally settle.

But one day, you looked into your child’s eyes—and something in you broke open.
You realized:
This isn’t the love I want them to learn.
This isn’t the home I want them to think is normal.
This isn’t the life I want to keep surviving.

So you left.

Maybe with trembling hands.
Maybe with guilt heavy on your shoulders.
Maybe with nothing but a suitcase and a heart full of cracks.
But you left.

And that took a kind of strength most people will never understand.
You chose healing over history.
You chose courage over comfort.
You chose to break the cycle so your child would never have to.

You chose silence over screaming.
Peace over pretending.
Freedom over fear.

And yes, it's hard.
There are nights when the quiet feels unbearable.
Moments when loneliness roars louder than the chaos ever did.
Times when the memory of "what could have been" tugs at your heart like a ghost.

But hear this:
You did not fail.
You saved someone.
You saved your child from believing that love feels like fear.
You saved yourself from a lifetime of shrinking to fit inside someone else’s comfort.

You are not a broken family.
You are a brave one.
A freer one.
A healing one.

So when doubt creeps in—when nostalgia tries to rewrite the past—remember:
You did the hardest, bravest thing a mother can do.
You chose to end the story where the hurt lived, so a new one could begin.
You chose a future where love feels safe, steady, and whole.

And that choice?
It is the beginning of something beautiful.
Something strong.
Something free.

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